Fair game or let's teach a child to play!
  Parents of young children often deliberately defy them in the game to convince the kid that he is the most intelligent, quick and agile, hoping thereby to raise his…

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Basic contradictions as a source of personality development of the adolescent
  Age from 11 to 15 years are not without reason called the critical. During this period in the formation of personality there are significant changes that sometimes lead to…

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Parents and children

 

How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.

And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.

Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.

So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.

1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others that they wish the child well, Continue reading

A Husband or children. Who in the first place?

 

Today I will reveal you the secret of a happy wife. The secret is very simple: the husband in a woman’s life is in the first place.

Unfortunately, women with this secret do not own or know nothing about him, so not very many people manage to build a happy relationship with her husband.

Quarrels replace scandals. This ends the alienation at best, and at worst ” divorce.

Why there are problems in the family? Because that woman wrong priorities. Today women are torn between children, work, career, home, their parents, the expectation that the husband will understand employment and appreciate women’s efforts, and her husband not only do not appreciate, but also offended and spoils our life, which we’ve arranged.

Every woman dreams to have a happy family, a loving husband, children, beautiful, cozy house, and at some point we women, put the very idea of the family in the first place, and the husband becomes merely a means by which we achieve this goal.

We get married and have children, educate them, encourage them in a thousand circles, working for the good of our family, are all in the house and at some point forget about the husband, he is lost somewhere among our plans and goals to create Continue reading

MOM, I’m SCARED! EDA Le Shan. When your child drives you crazy

 

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.

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