How much is written, much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there. Many parents dissatisfied with their children, criticizing their actions and want to live life for them. In turn, the children silently hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for control and manipulation, scandals and reproaches.
And this situation has been continued for thousands of years and most likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.
Of course, there are a few happy families, where between parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to refer to it is destructive families. Families that do harm to normal and the free development of personality.
So, what kinds of relationships do happen in families.
1. Parents are tyrants. Parents try to completely subjugate the will of the children. They control their every move, every action. Of course, this is covered with talk of love and care. But love does not control and is not overwhelming. True love believes and supports, demanding nothing in return. And how many parents tried to convince themselves and others that they wish the child well, Continue reading
On the influence of the full moon on the body
The moon affects humans? Some are skeptical, others submit my life to the lunar calendar. Who is right?
Remember the school geography lessons, which taught that the tides in the seas and oceans are directly dependent on the phase of the moon. But man, as we know 80% water and this means that whether we like it or not, and the phases of the moon do have a certain impact on us. It manifests itself most acutely when the Earth satellite is in the phase of full moon.
People have long noticed that in this period, emotions are sharpened, the tides of joy or despair can arise suddenly, and the inexorable statistics show that the highest percentage of suicides occur at this time, as well as the exacerbation of various chronic diseases and primarily mental. No wonder the human imagination ascribes to increased activity at a time when there is a full moon, all sorts of undead: ghouls, ghouls, werewolves and witches.
A lunar month consists of four phases: new moon, full moon . growing and waning moon. The first day of the moon marks the beginning of new moon. 7-8 lunar day of first quarter of the lunar month, full moon 14th and 17th day of the moon. Third quarter – 22 and 23 lunar days. Fourth quarter – the end of the lunar month.
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1. Teach your son to put into words what he feels.
The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
2. Be the biggest fan of his child.
Most likely, you will confuse your son that will start to sing his high school rock band on a family holiday or will show his baby pictures girls, to collect the most stupid (it is, of course, opinion) certificates, awards and achievements, writing in his blog that he had problems in school and so on. Most likely, he will say: “come on, mom, stop!”. He will blush, but know that there is at least one person who ALWAYS roots for him.
3. Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash socks and ironed shirts.
Maybe he’ll never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful to you.
4. Read to him and with him.
Children become readers on the lap of their Continue reading