All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient for parents. Parents have the feeling that they raise a little mess, especially as relatives and neighbours do not miss a chance to declare that their child gets the education that he is too spoiled and such arrogance and selfishness to anything good will not. Parents always most afraid not to be good in the role of caregivers, who has raised a child to be a real man! This is the main parent complex, which encourages them to go to extremes, just not to lose the reputation of a good parent.
First, we note the main disturbing element. Parents believe that in a happy family should not be conflict, and therefore, if he is — this is an unfavorable sign. Hence the keen desire to quickly suppress the revolt by violent means, that all was covered over. The reality is otherwise. Continue reading
There is a widespread belief that the Country of the rising sun to 7 years children almost nothing is forbidden, so as not to harm the development of your child’s individuality. But to raise a child in Japanese – this does not mean to indulge him in everything. Local families a very strong tradition, people used to respect their elders and obey them. And children, despite the apparent permissiveness, behave tolerably well.
Strictly speaking, in Japanese, Spartan, Spock or something else – no matter. Will you choose a specific education system or maybe invent your own, one goal – to teach the baby to live independently in society. The child was stable psyche (and the whims – just a manifestation of instability), no need to rush from one extreme to the other extreme: today, everything is possible and tomorrow method of education is changing on almost a barracks. Our article – not on how to make something the way you want, and how to agree!
«I will Not eat!”
Whims at the table are like a red thread through many family stories. For example, the baby gets used to the bottle and refuses to eat with a spoon or drink from a Cup. This is not a problem: you need to feed your baby when eaten with other family members – will develop a stereotype of behavior. With time everything will fall into place – Continue reading
the First in this year meeting of the club of foster parents and adoptive parents, organized by the Department of social projects that was, as they say, with a Bang. In the wording of the site on 4 February it was not crowded – the event brought together more than 30 people. They shared with each other and psychologist Chelyabinsk crisis center Inna Lapshina their fears and doubts, which was devoted to the topic of conversation.
“At a meeting of the club foster parent for the first time so many people came: I started the project with just six families. – admitted the Director for social projects site. – Of course, we expected it to be a sell-out, as we receive many calls from those who want. We are very happy because the guys got more potential parents.”
Six families of newcomers who came to the meeting already collect the paperwork to take the child from the orphanage. Ten pairs just wondering, are prepared to commit so serious in my life step. Doubt, as it turned out, all similar. About your fears with the club members shared their foster mom with experience Olga .
“I am the mother of a loner, so it was scary and hard to dip one in this thread was not the Club’s adoptive parents,” recalls Olga.
At first she was scared Continue reading