Parents and children. The struggle for power
All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient…

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What to do when your child is lying?
  First, the child learns to speak, then he learns to speak the truth then to lie. And when this momentous event happens, parents can congratulate themselves - their child…

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Computer games in children

 

“Computer games in the lives of children of senior preschool and younger school age”

1. The differences between computer games from traditional

Modern children, choosing between traditional and computer games, often prefer the latter. In terms of content, the computer games are in many respects similar to traditional, but they also have fundamental differences:

– many computer games are based on the principle of gradual complication of gaming and didactic tasks, like holding the child in the “zone of proximal development”;

– “phasing” in the programme, often allows the child to progress to the next stage without performing the tasks of the previous level. In some games you can use “menu” to arbitrarily choose the level of difficulty of the job. In other games, the program adapts to the child and offers him a new job with the light of his previous answers: more complicated if the jobs are successful, and Vice versa; Continue reading

From a boy to raise a man who doesn’t cry?

 

Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way. This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.

This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.

Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest and additional internal stress. If a man has nothing against men crying, he own tears indifferent as to any discharge of fluid from the body.

In male culture, crying is not accepted as good people. – Mat. Crying is just the result of habit. Of course, if it’s a habit developed from early childhood, crying seems natural and inevitable, but in cultures where the weeping Continue reading

Is it Difficult to live children in a large family? Education and psychology

 

Children in a large family – the kids. With their abilities and challenges, sorrows and joys. For some reason only to them often attracted special attention: how dressed-shod? the way we behave? learn how? I often hear:“I suppose, tough, crowded and noisy …”. Or Vice versa: “Cool, fun, you, probably, have with whom to share the news, play”. Let’s face it: the relationship between children in large families are different. Similarly as in small! Same problems, same solutions, and with two children. Can Wozniacki and jealousy of another child, and unwillingness to help around the house, and problems with learning, behavior… But some stereotypes are particularly strong when it comes to talk about children from large families. For example, about the need for privacy, his personal room, which, alas, deprived of the majority of such children. Remember your own childhood, it ’s housing safe”: separate rooms had neither I nor my sisters, although the opportunity for this was. But the needs of loneliness – was not, on the contrary, for a long time I was uncomfortable to sleep in one room. Conversely, now, when in our apartment quite closely, though there is the opportunity to sleep tired or the baby, to prepare for the exam senior – the others will find room. Yes and how many Continue reading