1. Teach your son to put into words what he feels.
The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
2. Be the biggest fan of his child.
Most likely, you will confuse your son that will start to sing his high school rock band on a family holiday or will show his baby pictures girls, to collect the most stupid (it is, of course, opinion) certificates, awards and achievements, writing in his blog that he had problems in school and so on. Most likely, he will say: “come on, mom, stop!”. He will blush, but know that there is at least one person who ALWAYS roots for him.
3. Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash socks and ironed shirts.
Maybe he’ll never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful to you.
4. Read to him and with him.
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The Child does not want to Wake up in the morning and go to kindergarten. How to explain to a child that no one asks?
Well, you give! First you need to det the garden with educators to understand! and you need to be able to protect her child! what if it hurt him!
Between sleep and waking there is an intermediate, so-called “prooecia” state. Experts explain this by the effect of sleep inertia, i.e. after sleep the human brain takes time to fully Wake up and start operation. Therefore, the revival should be slow and calm, all the parents ‘ actions and sounds – soft and gentle. You can include soft your favorite music, dim lights, Pat the baby and softly call his name. It would be even better if you create a ritual of awakening, to hug and kiss the baby, to ask how he slept and I dreamed. Due to this, the child will develop a reflex pleasant Wake-up. The day went well and the child felt cheerful, useful to teach him to do even in bed a few exercises and pulling. After a few minutes, when a child is fully awake, Continue reading
How to raise a child? Because most parents don’t know the difference between intelligence and knowledge, take the ability to read, count, a good memory for the mind, whereas the mind is the ability to reflect, to think, to compare. Seven important tips for parents.
Mechanical memory may be well expressed and retarded, but the ability to observe, to reason, to draw conclusions and determine the level of mental development.
1. Teach your child to talk
K. Helvetius warned: “you should Not stuff the baby’s head with facts, without having to learn to talk about them. Otherwise, the child acquires great talents to ramble and complete lack of common sense in adulthood. Knowledge is dead without the ability to use them”.
Michel de Montaigne, French philosopher, also believed: “Know by heart does not mean to know.” And saying the same thing: “don’t need a scientist and need clever”. Raising a child, teaching him to think, and not madly to memorize and repeat.
2. Develop child care
It is very important in the upbringing of the child from the first months of a child’s life to encourage and contribute to children’s care and concentration. Continue reading