How to respond to children's not want and will not
  There is a widespread belief that the Country of the rising sun to 7 years children almost nothing is forbidden, so as not to harm the development of your…

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Why officials decided to pick up three daughters in foster care from Belgorod?
What is better, an orphanage or foster home? On this, as it turned out ambiguous the question trying to answer the guardianship in the Belgorod region. There in a difficult…

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Parents and children. The struggle for power

All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient for parents. Parents have the feeling that they raise a little mess, especially as relatives and neighbours do not miss a chance to declare that their child gets the education that he is too spoiled and such arrogance and selfishness to anything good will not. Parents always most afraid not to be good in the role of caregivers, who has raised a child to be a real man! This is the main parent complex, which encourages them to go to extremes, just not to lose the reputation of a good parent.

First, we note the main disturbing element. Parents believe that in a happy family should not be conflict, and therefore, if he is — this is an unfavorable sign. Hence the keen desire to quickly suppress the revolt by violent means, that all was covered over. The reality is otherwise. Continue reading

Interpersonal relations in the family and their influence on the formation of personality and behavior in children

The relevance of interpersonal relations in the family and their influence on the formation of personality and behavior in children is: a very important factor and emotional balance mental health child — is the stability of the family environment. Of great importance «» family, her educational ability. The family, unable to raise, leads to serious disturbances in the process of socialization of the child.

The main influence on the personality development of a person has a family — parents and relatives. Children deprived of opportunities directly and permanently to participate in the life of a small group composed of relatives and people close to them, seriously depleted and hapless fate.

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Foster child: fears and doubts

the First in this year meeting of the club of foster parents and adoptive parents, organized by the Department of social projects that was, as they say, with a Bang. In the wording of the site on 4 February it was not crowded – the event brought together more than 30 people. They shared with each other and psychologist Chelyabinsk crisis center Inna Lapshina their fears and doubts, which was devoted to the topic of conversation.

“At a meeting of the club foster parent for the first time so many people came: I started the project with just six families. – admitted the Director for social projects site. – Of course, we expected it to be a sell-out, as we receive many calls from those who want. We are very happy because the guys got more potential parents.”

Six families of newcomers who came to the meeting already collect the paperwork to take the child from the orphanage. Ten pairs just wondering, are prepared to commit so serious in my life step. Doubt, as it turned out, all similar. About your fears with the club members shared their foster mom with experience Olga .

“I am the mother of a loner, so it was scary and hard to dip one in this thread was not the Club’s adoptive parents,” recalls Olga.

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The Difference between the children: which is better?
  As is known, the optimal difference between children for all families exist, only General recommendations based on the timing of the restoration of the female body and the process…

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A Husband or children. Who in the first place?
  Today I will reveal you the secret of a happy wife. The secret is very simple: the husband in a woman's life is in the first place. Unfortunately, women…

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