All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient for parents. Parents have the feeling that they raise a little mess, especially as relatives and neighbours do not miss a chance to declare that their child gets the education that he is too spoiled and such arrogance and selfishness to anything good will not. Parents always most afraid not to be good in the role of caregivers, who has raised a child to be a real man! This is the main parent complex, which encourages them to go to extremes, just not to lose the reputation of a good parent.
First, we note the main disturbing element. Parents believe that in a happy family should not be conflict, and therefore, if he is — this is an unfavorable sign. Hence the keen desire to quickly suppress the revolt by violent means, that all was covered over. The reality is otherwise. Continue reading
Interpersonal relations in the family and their influence on the formation of personality and behavior in children
The relevance of interpersonal relations in the family and their influence on the formation of personality and behavior in children is: a very important factor and emotional balance mental health child — is the stability of the family environment. Of great importance «» family, her educational ability. The family, unable to raise, leads to serious disturbances in the process of socialization of the child.
The main influence on the personality development of a person has a family — parents and relatives. Children deprived of opportunities directly and permanently to participate in the life of a small group composed of relatives and people close to them, seriously depleted and hapless fate.
In the process of close relationships with mother, father, brothers, sisters, grandfathers, grandmothers and other relatives of the child from the first days of life, Continue reading
Children in a large family – the kids. With their abilities and challenges, sorrows and joys. For some reason only to them often attracted special attention: how dressed-shod? the way we behave? learn how? I often hear:“I suppose, tough, crowded and noisy …”. Or Vice versa: “Cool, fun, you, probably, have with whom to share the news, play”. Let’s face it: the relationship between children in large families are different. Similarly as in small! Same problems, same solutions, and with two children. Can Wozniacki and jealousy of another child, and unwillingness to help around the house, and problems with learning, behavior… But some stereotypes are particularly strong when it comes to talk about children from large families. For example, about the need for privacy, his personal room, which, alas, deprived of the majority of such children. Remember your own childhood, it ’s housing safe”: separate rooms had neither I nor my sisters, although the opportunity for this was. But the needs of loneliness – was not, on the contrary, for a long time I was uncomfortable to sleep in one room. Conversely, now, when in our apartment quite closely, though there is the opportunity to sleep tired or the baby, to prepare for the exam senior – the others will find room. Yes and how many Continue reading