Foster child: fears and doubts
the First in this year meeting of the club of foster parents and adoptive parents, organized by the Department of social projects that was, as they say, with a Bang.…

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Your kid likes to get together for a walk?
Hello everyone! I am so sick of these calls every time we start to gather on the street. Ilya never liked to dress up, but when he was very young,…

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Interpersonal relations in the family and their influence on the formation of personality and behavior in children

The relevance of interpersonal relations in the family and their influence on the formation of personality and behavior in children is: a very important factor and emotional balance mental health child — is the stability of the family environment. Of great importance «» family, her educational ability. The family, unable to raise, leads to serious disturbances in the process of socialization of the child.

The main influence on the personality development of a person has a family — parents and relatives. Children deprived of opportunities directly and permanently to participate in the life of a small group composed of relatives and people close to them, seriously depleted and hapless fate.

In the process of close relationships with mother, father, brothers, sisters, grandfathers, grandmothers and other relatives of the child from the first days of life, Continue reading

From a boy to raise a man who doesn’t cry?

 

Women can often hear the regret that today’s boys lack male parenting, and as a result lack of male parenting men do not manifest themselves in a masculine way. This is a huge however, only are we ready for such education, including whether women themselves to make difficult the norms of male parenting, education like men? The belief “Men don’t cry” is a required part of men’s education. I think this is a good believe that it should be applied with discernment and intelligence.

This is not all know, but for men crying is pointless. For women it’s different: if the woman mount, and she cried, she usually becomes easier, woman crying helps to cope with emotional pain. While the men have all wrong, their grief and their pain are not crying eases, no.

Women believe in it with difficulty, but it’s true – tears from men not easier. If a man against his tears, they cause him protest and additional internal stress. If a man has nothing against men crying, he own tears indifferent as to any discharge of fluid from the body.

In male culture, crying is not accepted as good people. – Mat. Crying is just the result of habit. Of course, if it’s a habit developed from early childhood, crying seems natural and inevitable, but in cultures where the weeping Continue reading

MOM, I’m SCARED! EDA Le Shan. When your child drives you crazy

 

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child “don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong.

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Parents and children. The struggle for power
All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient…

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Lessons for a child in 8 months: how to develop 8 month toddler
  Growing up, the child will require more attention. For the harmonious development it is necessary to constantly engage. What are the lessons for a child to spend 8 months…

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