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Tips psychologist parents
Hard age. Adolescence age, which fearfully expecting almost all parents. The period between childhood and adolescence, when it comes to love, but none of them knows what it is. When…

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Computer games in children
  "Computer games in the lives of children of senior preschool and younger school age" 1. The differences between computer games from traditional Modern children, choosing between traditional and computer…

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The effects on children

On the influence of the full moon on the body

The moon affects humans? Some are skeptical, others submit my life to the lunar calendar. Who is right?

Remember the school geography lessons, which taught that the tides in the seas and oceans are directly dependent on the phase of the moon. But man, as we know 80% water and this means that whether we like it or not, and the phases of the moon do have a certain impact on us. It manifests itself most acutely when the Earth satellite is in the phase of full moon.

People have long noticed that in this period, emotions are sharpened, the tides of joy or despair can arise suddenly, and the inexorable statistics show that the highest percentage of suicides occur at this time, as well as the exacerbation of various chronic diseases and primarily mental. No wonder the human imagination ascribes to increased activity at a time when there is a full moon, all sorts of undead: ghouls, ghouls, werewolves and witches.

Moon math

A lunar month consists of four phases: new moon, full moon . growing and waning moon. The first day of the moon marks the beginning of new moon. 7-8 lunar day of first quarter of the lunar month, full moon 14th and 17th day of the moon. Third quarter – 22 and 23 lunar days. Fourth quarter – the end of the lunar month.

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Parents and children. The struggle for power

All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient for parents. Parents have the feeling that they raise a little mess, especially as relatives and neighbours do not miss a chance to declare that their child gets the education that he is too spoiled and such arrogance and selfishness to anything good will not. Parents always most afraid not to be good in the role of caregivers, who has raised a child to be a real man! This is the main parent complex, which encourages them to go to extremes, just not to lose the reputation of a good parent.

First, we note the main disturbing element. Parents believe that in a happy family should not be conflict, and therefore, if he is — this is an unfavorable sign. Hence the keen desire to quickly suppress the revolt by violent means, that all was covered over. The reality is otherwise. Continue reading

Tips psychologist parents

Hard age. Adolescence age, which fearfully expecting almost all parents. The period between childhood and adolescence, when it comes to love, but none of them knows what it is. When changing the figure, but they are ashamed of their beauty, because they do not know is good or bad. After parting with pink childhood and being at a crossroads, a teenager eager to become an adult, trying to break with the rigid control of the family and the school, is committed to independence, actively looking out for himself, and by trial and error. Physical development, puberty occurring at this age, they reinforce a sense of maturity, and bias due to social immaturity, the appropriate attitude of adults is constantly and ruthlessly toss it to the child. Age drama pushes him into conflict with adults, care of them, to unite with their own kind, focus on their evaluation. These estimates are very often contrary to generally accepted norms of behavior and are manifestations of teenage negativism, which can lead to not very good consequences. The age when they committed a lot of mistakes, first sexual experience, which Continue reading

The Effects of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families.

the Consequences of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families. The family influence on the child’s upbringing.

In ancient Greece Plato, following Socrates, claimed: “All the evil of the world, the selfishness of people, their class inequality grows primarily from the existence of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families.

Immoderate love of parents to their own child begets greed, and other properties, exposing people that generate enmity between them. Subsequent philosophers and teachers not paid attention to this issue, though I rated it differently.

The harmonic development of the personality is impossible without family care, which should be combined and supported by public. Now psychologists and doctors say that even a few months of deprivation of love applied to mental, moral and emotional development of the child irreparable harm, all subsequent spiritual life, negatively affect mental and physical development.

Creating spiritual and emotional foundations of personality and have a purpose, and sense of family upbringing. Without parental love, the thing known, the child living in the father and the mother is an orphan. Continue reading

24 rules for moms of boys – the Answer to everything

1. Teach your son to put into words what he feels.

The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.

2. Be the biggest fan of his child.

Most likely, you will confuse your son that will start to sing his high school rock band on a family holiday or will show his baby pictures girls, to collect the most stupid (it is, of course, opinion) certificates, awards and achievements, writing in his blog that he had problems in school and so on. Most likely, he will say: “come on, mom, stop!”. He will blush, but know that there is at least one person who ALWAYS roots for him.

3. Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash socks and ironed shirts.

Maybe he’ll never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful to you.

4. Read to him and with him.

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