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The Issues of consolidation of the right of use of premises for a child after parents divorce
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Mom, I’m scared…

 

Childhood fears – almost a full component of their life – if only because, quite fearless children almost never occurs. To some extent this can probably be considered the norm, of course, if the fears do not become manic and not interfere with the child’s normal to live and grow.

Glory 10 years . He is broad-shouldered, sturdy boy, who is ready all day to climb on roofs and jump over fences. But once night falls, it’s like a substitute: public, noisy, cheerful Tomboy he turns into a small frightened animal, who at the slightest sound of the door runs to sleep at my mom. There he instantly calms down and falls asleep…

When did it all start? For a long time. One day he went with his father on a fishing trip. Father – in innocence! – put the baby down, and he went with friends on a “hunt”. But when he returned, he found his son sitting under the table, wrapped in blankets. However, did not attach any importance to this occasion and only joked: “one More time – and a real man will become!” Only “more time” turned the big issues.

The child’s mother went on a business trip, and his father stayed with him at home. He stubbornly pretended not to notice, that in his absence the child Continue reading

Bad habits in children

 

Perhaps no baby is complete without one or other bad habits. Some people chew their nails, someone sucking your thumb, someone twirling in his fingers a strand of hair, and someone even pulls out all the hair. There are habits that parents are embarrassed to discuss even with a psychologist. Meanwhile, all the habits one reason — they appear when the child is left alone with their fears, unable to Express them, to overcome.

The four year old goes to kindergarten only with his beloved stuffed dog. He will not part with it for a moment, and in moments of reverie or unrest begins to suck her paw. Numerous attempts by the caregiver to interest the child other toys nor to no avail, finding your next dog, baby covered with cold sweat and even begins to cry and shake. Clearly, in order not to bring the boy before the next attack, just leave it alone.

Mother claims not to remember that her son had such an affection. But with a toy he doesn’t leave at least the last two years. In conversation with the psychologist revealed that about two years ago mom went to work. Obviously, it happened then the transfer of the senses of the baby with mom on endangered thing. The child was afraid to be without my mom and the toy was always there. So he began to perceive it not as an inanimate object, but as a native person, as a friend, with Continue reading