All parents encounter situations when neither confrontation, nor to changes in the environment do not affect the behavior of their child; the child continues to do what is not convenient for parents. Parents have the feeling that they raise a little mess, especially as relatives and neighbours do not miss a chance to declare that their child gets the education that he is too spoiled and such arrogance and selfishness to anything good will not. Parents always most afraid not to be good in the role of caregivers, who has raised a child to be a real man! This is the main parent complex, which encourages them to go to extremes, just not to lose the reputation of a good parent.
First, we note the main disturbing element. Parents believe that in a happy family should not be conflict, and therefore, if he is — this is an unfavorable sign. Hence the keen desire to quickly suppress the revolt by violent means, that all was covered over. The reality is otherwise. Continue reading
Hard age. Adolescence age, which fearfully expecting almost all parents. The period between childhood and adolescence, when it comes to love, but none of them knows what it is. When changing the figure, but they are ashamed of their beauty, because they do not know is good or bad. After parting with pink childhood and being at a crossroads, a teenager eager to become an adult, trying to break with the rigid control of the family and the school, is committed to independence, actively looking out for himself, and by trial and error. Physical development, puberty occurring at this age, they reinforce a sense of maturity, and bias due to social immaturity, the appropriate attitude of adults is constantly and ruthlessly toss it to the child. Age drama pushes him into conflict with adults, care of them, to unite with their own kind, focus on their evaluation. These estimates are very often contrary to generally accepted norms of behavior and are manifestations of teenage negativism, which can lead to not very good consequences. The age when they committed a lot of mistakes, first sexual experience, which Continue reading
the Consequences of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families. The family influence on the child’s upbringing.
In ancient Greece Plato, following Socrates, claimed: “All the evil of the world, the selfishness of people, their class inequality grows primarily from the existence of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families.
Immoderate love of parents to their own child begets greed, and other properties, exposing people that generate enmity between them. Subsequent philosophers and teachers not paid attention to this issue, though I rated it differently.
The harmonic development of the personality is impossible without family care, which should be combined and supported by public. Now psychologists and doctors say that even a few months of deprivation of love applied to mental, moral and emotional development of the child irreparable harm, all subsequent spiritual life, negatively affect mental and physical development.
Creating spiritual and emotional foundations of personality and have a purpose, and sense of family upbringing. Without parental love, the thing known, the child living in the father and the mother is an orphan. Continue reading