Hard age. Adolescence age, which fearfully expecting almost all parents. The period between childhood and adolescence, when it comes to love, but none of them knows what it is. When changing the figure, but they are ashamed of their beauty, because they do not know is good or bad. After parting with pink childhood and being at a crossroads, a teenager eager to become an adult, trying to break with the rigid control of the family and the school, is committed to independence, actively looking out for himself, and by trial and error. Physical development, puberty occurring at this age, they reinforce a sense of maturity, and bias due to social immaturity, the appropriate attitude of adults is constantly and ruthlessly toss it to the child. Age drama pushes him into conflict with adults, care of them, to unite with their own kind, focus on their evaluation. These estimates are very often contrary to generally accepted norms of behavior and are manifestations of teenage negativism, which can lead to not very good consequences. The age when they committed a lot of mistakes, first sexual experience, which Continue reading
the Consequences of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families. The family influence on the child’s upbringing.
In ancient Greece Plato, following Socrates, claimed: “All the evil of the world, the selfishness of people, their class inequality grows primarily from the existence of unequal conditions of upbringing of children in families.
Immoderate love of parents to their own child begets greed, and other properties, exposing people that generate enmity between them. Subsequent philosophers and teachers not paid attention to this issue, though I rated it differently.
The harmonic development of the personality is impossible without family care, which should be combined and supported by public. Now psychologists and doctors say that even a few months of deprivation of love applied to mental, moral and emotional development of the child irreparable harm, all subsequent spiritual life, negatively affect mental and physical development.
Creating spiritual and emotional foundations of personality and have a purpose, and sense of family upbringing. Without parental love, the thing known, the child living in the father and the mother is an orphan. Continue reading
1. Teach your son to put into words what he feels.
The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
2. Be the biggest fan of his child.
Most likely, you will confuse your son that will start to sing his high school rock band on a family holiday or will show his baby pictures girls, to collect the most stupid (it is, of course, opinion) certificates, awards and achievements, writing in his blog that he had problems in school and so on. Most likely, he will say: “come on, mom, stop!”. He will blush, but know that there is at least one person who ALWAYS roots for him.
3. Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash socks and ironed shirts.
Maybe he’ll never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful to you.
4. Read to him and with him.
Children become readers on the lap of their Continue reading